consistent reassurance and affection regarding mental and emotional validation.
(Source: sensitivesuggestions)
(Source: incomparablyme)
buffering more like suffering
there’s so much intimacy in understanding. Someone who doesn’t understand you is not going to know how to love you because they don’t know who you are.
(Source: disturbidellospettro)
A black person: Black bodies are hypersexualized and fetishized while at the same time viewed as inferior and ugly. This is why it is an issue, or at the very very least a huge red flag, if a non-black has only dated or has a ‘preference’ for black people. It is ALSO an issue if someone has never dated a black person or has a ‘preference’ that excludes them. Both actions, although they seem the exact opposite, stem from the same racist ideas about black bodies formed in the days of slavery and colonisation. These beliefs served the purpose of dehumanising us as a whole. Till this day these ideas have been perpetuated and are heavily ingrained in the subconscious of our society on a global level.
Some non black sewer rat: So if i find black people attractive i’m wrong but if i don’t find them attractive i’m wrong too -___-
(Source: trapcard)
recovery is not linear, recovery is not linear, relapses are okay, you are coping the best you can
me to myself upon feeling a wave of emotional dysphoria: emotional pain is inevitable and you were built to suffer because you can take it
(Source: tumbrr)
i’m honestly kind of proud of myself for not blowing my brains out at this point
(Source: melalkolik)